<aside> <img src="https://prod-files-secure.s3.us-west-2.amazonaws.com/c6f742ec-c817-4642-82cc-684ad710983c/57485d90-cfe0-420f-ab35-dd1e5afccc8b/Logo_Animation_Rose_Solo.gif" alt="https://prod-files-secure.s3.us-west-2.amazonaws.com/c6f742ec-c817-4642-82cc-684ad710983c/57485d90-cfe0-420f-ab35-dd1e5afccc8b/Logo_Animation_Rose_Solo.gif" width="40px" /> Welcome to Premarital Counseling at Ours!
Premarital counseling at Ours is built for couples who are getting married soon and want to talk about the big stuff. Throughout this journey, you’ll talk about major areas of your relationship, plan for your future together and spend meaningful time together, grow even stronger along the way.
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Premarital counseling at Ours consists of two major parts:
You have likely already been paired with your therapist (if not, or if you have any questions, reach out to [email protected]). Head over to secure.withours.com to book sessions with them.
You can use your sessions with your therapist however you’d like. Some ways that couples like to use these sessions are:
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Outside of your live therapy sessions, there are 10 major topics that the Ours premarital counseling package comes with. Each topic includes a Deep Dive and a Conversation Deck. We recommend choosing a timeframe (one month is usually a good target) to complete your exploration of all of these topics.
Deep Dives are designed to facilitate your exploration as a couple on specific topics. Each Deep Dive includes a series of skills to learn, activities, reflection prompts and plans to make. They are designed to take about an hour each, but can be longer or shorter depending on how deep you go and how relevant the topic has been in your relationship to date.
Conversation Decks include questions to ask each other to have meaningful conversations. They are a lightweight way to keep the conversation going after your Deep Dive and can be done from your couch, on a walk or hike, in the car, on a dinner date… make it your own!
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Without further ado… enjoy! Click into each of the links below to start your journey.